君子和而不同

jūnzǐ hé ér bù tóng
quotation

Meanings

  1. 1 the gentleman is harmonious but does not conform
  2. 2 a person of character seeks harmony without blindly agreeing (literally: harmonizes yet is not the same)

Examples

HSK 7-9
Zhēnzhèng de péngyou jūnzǐ hé ér bù tóng, néng tǎnchéng de biǎodá bùtóng yìjiàn.
Real friends follow 'harmonious but not the same' - they can express different views honestly.
HSK 7-9
Guó yǔ guó zhījiān yě yīnggāi jūnzǐ hé ér bù tóng.
Nations too should practice 'harmony without uniformity.'

Tips

history
From the Analects 《论语·子路》: 君子小人 (The gentleman harmonises without conforming; the petty man conforms without harmony.) Chinese diplomacy frequently invokes the phrase to describe its cultural and international ethic.
usage
= harmonious relations while keeping distinct views; = sameness/conformity. Modern usage almost always cites it as a diplomatic or interpersonal principle.

Stroke Order

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