Most Chinese parents hope their sons become dragons and their daughters phoenixes.
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culture
The dragon (龙) in Chinese culture is the supreme auspicious creature, the emperor's symbol and the embodiment of power and success. 'Becoming a dragon' means reaching the very top of career and status. Pair: 望女成凤 (daughter becomes a phoenix).
usage
A cornerstone term of modern education-culture discussions. Often slightly critical in modern contexts, evokes parental pressure, cram schools, and the cost to children's well-being, though the phrase itself is neutral.