I don't like social wrangling and gift-giving — a gentleman's friendship is plain as water.
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From Zhuangzi (《庄子·山木》): 且君子之交淡若水，小人之交甘若醴；君子淡以亲，小人甘以绝 — 'A gentleman's friendship is plain as water, a petty person's is sweet as wine; the plain one endures in closeness, the sweet one ends in rupture.' The moral: friendships based on shared values outlast those based on favors and flattery.
usage
Often contrasted with 小人之交甘若醴 in formal writing. Used to decline gift exchange, praise a long-standing low-key friendship, or describe unostentatious social relations.
