厚此薄彼

hòucǐbóbǐ
idiom #73,263

Meanings

  1. 1 to favor one and slight the other
  2. 2 to show partiality
  3. 3 to treat unequally

Examples

Fùmǔ duì háizi bù yīnggāi hòu cǐ bó bǐ.
Parents shouldn't favor one child over another.
Gōngsī fēnpèi zīyuán shí hòu cǐ bó bǐ, yǐnqǐ le yuángōng bùmǎn.
The company's unequal distribution of resources caused employee dissatisfaction.
Lǎoshī duì xuéshēng yīnggāi yī shì tóng rén, bùnéng hòu cǐ bó bǐ.
Teachers should treat all students equally, not play favorites.

Tips

history
From the 《·》 (Book of Liang, 7th century): originally described differing mourning obligations for one's own family versus adopted-out relatives. Later generalized to any uneven treatment.
usage
Near-antonym of 一视同仁 (yī shì tóng rén, 'treat everyone equally').

Stroke Order

hòu
báo