温存

溫存
wēncún
adjective #30,630

Meanings

  1. 1 tender
  2. 2 affectionate
  3. 3 (of touch/words) gentle and warm
  4. 4 to be tender/affectionate (verbal)

Examples

Tā duì qīzi fēicháng wēncún.
He's very tender with his wife.
Tā wēncún de mùguāng ràng wǒ gǎndào ānxīn.
Her tender gaze put me at ease.
Mǔqīn wēncún de fǔmō zhe háizi de tóu.
The mother gently stroked the child's head.

Tips

register
Literary/written register — common in romance novels, song lyrics, and poetry, less so in casual speech (where 温柔 wēnróu, gentle, is the everyday word). 温存 carries a lingering, intimate quality, suggesting attentive care rather than just a soft personality.
memory
(warm) + (to keep, preserve) — "warmth that lingers / is held close." Captures the difference from plain 温柔: not just gentle in the moment, but tenderly attentive over time.

Stroke Order

wēn
cún