一厢情愿

一廂情願
yīxiāng-qíngyuàn
idiom #16,774

Meanings

  1. 1 one-sided wishful thinking
  2. 2 unrequited; one's own delusion

Characters

Literally 'one-side-feeling-wish' - feelings coming from only one side.

Examples

HSK 3
Nǐ juéde tā xǐhuan nǐ? Nà zhǐshì nǐ yīxiāng-qíngyuàn.
You think she likes you? That's just your own wishful thinking.
HSK 3
Hézuò xūyào shuāngfāng tóngyì, bùnéng yīxiāng-qíngyuàn.
Cooperation requires both sides to agree - you can't just wish it into existence.

Tips

memory
Picture someone standing in one wing (一厢) of a building, wishing (情愿) for love from the other wing - but nobody's there. One-sided wishful thinking.

Stroke Order

xiāng
qíng
yuàn