顾此失彼

顧此失彼
gùcǐ-shībǐ
idiom #66,494

Meanings

  1. 1 to attend to one thing and lose sight of another
  2. 2 to be unable to manage more than one thing at once
  3. 3 to rob Peter to mind Paul

Examples

Gōngzuò hé jiātíng tā zǒngshì gùcǐ-shībǐ.
He is always neglecting one of work and family for the other.
Rènwù tài duō, nánmiǎn gùcǐ-shībǐ.
There are so many tasks that neglecting some is unavoidable.
Zuò jìhuà yào quánmiàn, bìmiǎn gùcǐ-shībǐ.
Plans must be comprehensive to avoid losing sight of one thing while tending another.

Tips

history
From Feng Menglong's 东周列国志 (Ming): the military stratagem of splitting an army and attacking from multiple directions forces the enemy to 顾此失彼 - defend one front and lose another. Still common in strategy and management writing.
grammar
('this') and ('that') work as a pair, an abstract 'one thing vs. another'. They do not take concrete referents; you don't say 顾这个失那个.

Stroke Order

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