顾此失彼

顧此失彼
gùcǐshībǐ
idiom #66,494

Meanings

  1. 1 to attend to one thing and lose sight of another
  2. 2 to be unable to manage more than one thing at once
  3. 3 to rob Peter to mind Paul

Examples

Gōngzuò hé jiātíng tā zǒngshì gù cǐ shī bǐ.
He is always neglecting one of work and family for the other.
Rènwù tài duō, nánmiǎn gù cǐ shī bǐ.
There are so many tasks that neglecting some is unavoidable.
Zuò jìhuà yào quánmiàn, bìmiǎn gù cǐ shī bǐ.
Plans must be comprehensive to avoid losing sight of one thing while tending another.

Tips

history
From Feng Menglong's 《》 (Ming): the military stratagem of splitting an army and attacking from multiple directions forces the enemy to '顾此失彼' — defend one front and lose another. Still common in strategy and management writing.
grammar
('this') and ('that') work as a pair — an abstract 'one thing vs. another'. They do not take concrete referents; you don't say '这个那个'.

Stroke Order

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