君子之交

jūnzǐzhījiāo
idiom

Meanings

  1. 1 friendship between noble people
  2. 2 a gentleman's friendship, plain as water
  3. 3 a quiet, principled bond

Examples

Jūn zǐ zhī jiāo dàn rú shuǐ, bùbì tiāntiān jiànmiàn.
A gentleman's friendship is plain as water; they don't need to meet every day.
Wǒmen shì jūn zǐ zhī jiāo, cóng bù tán qián.
Ours is a gentleman's friendship — we never talk about money.
Tā zūnzhòng jūn zǐ zhī jiāo de yuánzé, bǎochí shìdàng jùlí.
He respects the principle of gentlemanly friendship and keeps a proper distance.

Tips

history
From 《庄子·》: 君子之交小人 — 'a gentleman's friendship is bland as water, a petty man's is sweet as sweet wine.' Zhuangzi's point: the plainer bond lasts, the flattering one sours.

Stroke Order

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