同甘共苦

tónggān-gòngkǔ
idiom #31,080

Meanings

  1. 1 to share joys and hardships
  2. 2 to stand together through thick and thin
  3. 3 for better or for worse

Examples

Wǒmen fūqī tónggāngòngkǔ sānshí nián.
As husband and wife we've stood together through thirty years of ups and downs.
Zhànyǒu zhījiān tónggāngòngkǔ de qíngyì zuì shēn.
The bond between comrades who've shared hardship runs deepest.
Zhēnzhèng de péngyou néng tónggāngòngkǔ.
True friends stick together through good times and bad.

Tips

history
Rooted in 《战国·》, which describes King Zhao of Yan '百姓' — sharing sweet and bitter with the people — in order to rebuild the state after defeat. The standard four-character form crystallized later.
memory
= sweet, = bitter. + both mean 'together'. Two ways of saying 'together' wrapped around the two opposite flavors of life: sweet together, bitter together.

Stroke Order

tóng
gān
gòng