各取所需

gèqǔsuǒxū
idiom #37,982

Meanings

  1. 1 each takes what he needs
  2. 2 each party gets what they want from the arrangement

Examples

Zìzhùcān jiùshì gèqǔsuǒxū, xiǎng chī shénme ná shénme.
A buffet is each person taking what they want — eat whatever you like.
Zhè cì hézuò kěyǐ shuō shì gèqǔsuǒxū, shuāngfāng dōu mǎnyì.
This collaboration is a case of each side getting what they need — both are satisfied.
Tāmen gèqǔsuǒxū, shéi yě bú qiàn shéi de.
They each got what they wanted — neither owes the other anything.

Tips

usage
Used two ways: (1) neutral — buffets, free selection, marketplaces (each picks what suits them); (2) mildly critical — transactional relationships where both sides are just extracting what they want without genuine connection. Context disambiguates.
culture
Echoes the Marxist slogan 分配 ('from each according to ability, to each according to need'), though 各取所需 predates it and is now usually neutral-commercial rather than political.

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