闭门羹

閉門羹
bìméngēng
phrase #37,786

Meanings

  1. 1 closed-door soup
  2. 2 a cold rebuff; being turned away at the door
  3. 3 a flat refusal to see someone

Examples

HSK 4
Tuīxiāoyuán liánlián chī bìméngēng, yī dān yě méi tán chéng.
The salesman got rebuffed again and again and didn't close a single deal.
HSK 5
Wǒ zuótiān qù bàifǎng tā, jiéguǒ chī le gè bìméngēng.
I went to visit him yesterday and got the door shut in my face.
HSK 6
Bié pà chī bìméngēng, duō pǎo jǐ jiā zǒng yǒu yī jiā yuànyì liáo.
Don't fear a few closed doors - knock on enough and one will open.

Tips

usage
Almost always paired with ('to eat'): 吃闭门羹 = 'to be turned away.' The soup you 'eat' is the refusal itself.
history
From the Tang-dynasty 云仙杂记: a Xuancheng courtesan named Shi Feng screened suitors - the ones she refused were sent away with a bowl of 'closed-door soup' instead of an audience.

Stroke Order

mén
gēng