心急吃不了热豆腐

心急吃不了熱豆腐
xīnjíchībùliǎorèdòufu
idiom

Meanings

  1. 1 haste makes waste (lit. 'an impatient person can't eat hot tofu')
  2. 2 you have to be patient
  3. 3 rushing ruins everything

Examples

Bié cuī tā le, xīn jí chī bù liǎo rè dòufu.
Stop pushing him — haste won't get you anywhere.
Zuò zhè zhǒng gōngzuò yào mànman lái, xīn jí chī bù liǎo rè dòufu.
This kind of work has to be done slowly — you can't rush hot tofu.

Tips

memory
Picture it literally: tofu fresh out of the pot is scorching. If you grab a hot piece and shove it in your mouth, you'll burn your tongue and have to spit it out. Patience pays. The image is vivid and specifically Chinese — tofu cooks fast and stays hot inside.
usage
Common everyday saying, no fixed classical source. Use to gently slow someone down — a coworker, a child, a partner who keeps refreshing for results. Less formal than (yùsùzébùdá), which says the same thing in classical register.

Stroke Order

xīn
chī
le
dòu