追悔莫及

zhuīhuǐmòjí
idiom #36,792

Meanings

  1. 1 too late for regret
  2. 2 to regret but be unable to undo it
  3. 3 there is no making up for it now

Examples

Tā xiànzài zhuī huǐ mò jí, dàn shìqing yǐjīng fāshēng le.
He regrets it deeply now, but what's done is done.
Děngdào shīqù le cái zhuī huǐ mò jí.
Only after losing it do you find regret beyond remedy.
Dāngchū bù tīng quàngào, xiànzài zhuī huǐ mò jí.
I wouldn't take the advice at the time; now there's no fixing it.

Tips

history
Traced to Chao Cuo's Han-era memorial 《》: '' — 'to stumble and not recover: the regret comes too late'. The modern form 追悔莫及 preserves that sense of irreversible regret.
memory
here means 'to chase after (retroactively)'. = 'regret after the fact'. = 'cannot reach / catch up'. You can chase your regret but never overtake what's already done.

Stroke Order

zhuī
huǐ