近朱者赤,近墨者黑

jìnzhūzhěchì,jìnmòzhěhēi
idiom

Meanings

  1. 1 those who handle cinnabar are stained red, those who work with ink are stained black
  2. 2 you become like the company you keep

Examples

Jìn zhū zhě chì, jìn mò zhě hēi, suǒyǐ yào shènzhòng xuǎnzé péngyou.
You become what you surround yourself with, so choose your friends carefully.
Gǔrén shuō jìn zhū zhě chì, jìn mò zhě hēi, huánjìng duì háizi de yǐngxiǎng hěn dà.
The ancients said one is colored by their company — the environment has a huge effect on children.

Tips

history
From Fu Xuan's 《太子》 (Admonitions for the Crown Prince's Tutor), Western Jin dynasty: — therefore those near cinnabar turn red, those near ink turn black; if the sound is harmonious the echo is clear, if the form is upright the shadow is straight.
memory
(zhū) = vermilion/cinnabar (red ink), (mò) = black ink. Picture a scribe whose hands are stained by whichever ink they grind.

Stroke Order

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