若要人不知

Ruò yào rén bù zhī
quotation

Meanings

  1. 1 if you want others not to know (then don't do it yourself)
  2. 2 the only way to keep a secret is not to create it
  3. 3 opening half of a proverb about inevitable exposure

Examples

HSK 7-9
Ruò yào rén bù zhī, chúfēi jǐ mò wéi, zuò le huàishì zǒnghuì bèi fāxiàn.
If you don't want others to know, don't do it yourself - wrongdoing always comes to light.
HSK 7-9
Tā yǐwéi néng mán zhù, kě ruò yào rén bù zhī, chúfēi jǐ mò wéi.
He thought he could hide it, but if you don't want others to know, you must not do it.

Tips

history
The first half of a well-known proverb pair: 若要人不知,除非己莫为 - 'If you want others not to know, then you yourself must not do it.' The saying echoes an earlier formulation in a memorial attributed to the Han scholar Mei Sheng (枚乘): 欲人勿闻,莫若勿言;欲人勿知,莫若勿为. The popular modern rhyme became proverbial through ballads and vernacular fiction.
usage
Always used with the closing line 除非己莫为. Common in proverbs about honesty and consequences - favored in parental lectures and anti-corruption editorials.

Stroke Order

ruò
yào
rén
zhī