Jiāzhǎng de tàidù yǒuyìwúyì de yǐngxiǎng zhe háizi.
Parents' attitudes shape their children, consciously or not.
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From 《世说新语·文学》: Yu Kang asked his nephew what the new fu should really express, and got the reply 正在有意无意之间 — 'it lies precisely between intention and non-intention.' Originally an aesthetic principle; now generalized to any ambiguous action.
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Typically adverbial (有意无意地 + verb). Describes actions where the speaker can't or won't say whether the agent meant it — deniable but suspicious.