事与愿违

事與願違
shìyǔyuànwéi
idiom #18,980

Meanings

  1. 1 things turn out contrary to one's wishes
  2. 2 to not go as planned

Examples

Tā běnlái xiǎng kǎo dì-yī míng, jiéguǒ shìyǔyuànwéi.
He originally wanted to get first place, but things didn't go as planned.
Rénshēng chángcháng shìyǔyuànwéi, bùbì tài zàiyì.
Life often doesn't go as we wish -- there's no need to take it too hard.

Tips

memory
(matter) (and) (wish) (violate) -- the matter violates one's wishes. Things go against what you hoped for.

Stroke Order

shì
yuàn
wéi