心有余而力不足

心有餘而力不足
xīnyǒuyú'érlìbùzú
idiom #47,178

Meanings

  1. 1 the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak
  2. 2 to have the desire but lack the strength
  3. 3 more willing than able

Examples

Wǒ yě xiǎng bāng nǐ bānjiā, kěxī xīnyǒuyú'érlìbùzú.
I'd love to help you move, but I'm willing in spirit, weak in body.
Miànduì zhème duō rènwù, tā gǎndào xīnyǒuyú'érlìbùzú.
Facing so many tasks, he felt his energy fell short of his ambition.

Tips

usage
Common polite refusal — softens 'no' by saying you want to help but truly cannot. The makes the orthography require an apostrophe: yǒuyú'ér.

Stroke Order

xīn
yǒu
ér