心有余而力不足

心有餘而力不足
xīnyǒuyú'érlìbùzú
idiom #47,178

Meanings

  1. 1 the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak
  2. 2 to have the desire but lack the strength
  3. 3 more willing than able

Examples

HSK 3
Miànduì zhème duō rènwù, tā gǎndào xīnyǒuyú'érlìbùzú.
Facing so many tasks, he felt his energy fell short of his ambition.
HSK 5
Wǒ yě xiǎng bāng nǐ bānjiā, kěxī xīnyǒuyú'érlìbùzú.
I'd love to help you move, but I'm willing in spirit, weak in body.

Tips

usage
Common polite refusal - softens 'no' by saying you want to help but truly cannot. The makes the orthography require an apostrophe: yǒuyú'ér.

Stroke Order

xīn
yǒu
ér