She keeps him at arm's length in a way that's hard to read.
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usage
Most often describes interpersonal relationships (romantic or friendly) where one party deliberately maintains ambiguity. Can also describe diplomatic or business alliances.
memory
若 = 'seems,' 即 = 'approach,' 离 = 'depart.' 'Seems to approach, seems to leave' - a textbook definition of hot-and-cold.
