白发人送黑发人

白髮人送黑髮人
báifàrénsònghēifàrén
idiom

Meanings

  1. 1 white-haired people burying black-haired people
  2. 2 a parent outliving their child

Examples

Bái fà rén sòng hēi fà rén, shì shì shàng zuì tòng de shì.
A parent burying a child — the most painful thing in the world.
Érzi yìwài qùshì, lǎorén chéngshòu zhe bái fà rén sòng hēi fà rén de tòngkǔ.
After the son died in an accident, the old father bore the agony of burying his own child.

Tips

culture
In Chinese culture, the natural order is the young burying the old. Reversing this is considered the deepest family tragedy — hence the idiom's gravity.

Stroke Order

bái
rén
sòng
hēi