有心无力

有心無力
yǒuxīn-wúlì
idiom

Meanings

  1. 1 willing but unable
  2. 2 the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak
  3. 3 to want to help but lack the means

Examples

HSK 3
Wǒ hěn xiǎng bāng nǐ, kěshì yǒuxīn-wúlì.
I really want to help you, but I simply don't have the means.
HSK 5
Lǎorén xiǎng zhàogù sūnzi, dàn niánjì dà le, yǒuxīn-wúlì.
The old man wants to look after his grandson, but at his age he's willing yet unable.
HSK 6
Miànduì zhème fùzá de júmiàn, tā yǒuxīn-wúlì.
Faced with such a complex situation, he was willing but powerless.

Tips

history
From the Southern Dynasties text 《高僧传》 by Huijiao (Liang dynasty): 贫道必当尽诚上答,正恐有心无力耳. A monk fears he cannot repay a kindness because, though willing, he lacks the strength.
usage
Often used to politely decline or apologize. Compare 力不从心 (near-synonym, slightly more about mental/physical incapacity) and 爱莫能助 (wanting to help but unable to).

Stroke Order

yǒu
xīn