Zhèxiē nián shēnghuó bǎ tā róucuo de bùchéng yàngzi.
Life over these years has worn him down beyond recognition.
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Two distinct senses: literal hand action (massaging skin, kneading dough, scrubbing laundry) and figurative 'to torment' - life or hardship 揉搓 a person. The figurative sense often appears in passive 被揉搓 or 把 constructions.
