失之交臂

shīzhījiāobì
idiom #26,812

Meanings

  1. 1 to narrowly miss (a person or opportunity)
  2. 2 to let a great opportunity slip through one's fingers

Examples

Tāmen jiù chà yī bù, jiéguǒ háishi shī zhī jiāo bì.
They were just one step away, but still narrowly missed it.
Yóuyú shēngbìng, tā yǔ zhè cì jìnshēng jīhuì shī zhī jiāo bì.
Due to illness, she narrowly missed this promotion opportunity.

Tips

memory
means 'arms crossing' — as close as two people passing each other with arms brushing. Adding (to lose/miss) paints the picture of two people crossing paths so close their arms touch, yet still missing each other.

Stroke Order

shī
zhī
jiāo