兄弟阋于墙

兄弟鬩於牆
xiōngdìxìyúqiáng
idiom

Meanings

  1. 1 brothers quarrel within the walls
  2. 2 internal strife within a family or group (often in contrast to uniting against outsiders)

Examples

Xiōngdìxìyúqiáng, wài yù qí wǔ, gāi tuánjié shí bìxū tuánjié.
Brothers may quarrel at home but unite against outsiders; when unity is needed, we must unite.
Liǎng jiā gōngsī xiōngdìxìyúqiáng, jiéguǒ bèi duìshǒu qiǎng le shìchǎng.
The two companies squabbled like brothers at home, and a competitor grabbed the market.

Tips

history
From the 诗经 (小雅 · 常棣): 兄弟阋于墙, 外御其侮 (brothers may quarrel within the walls, but outside they fend off insults together). The shortened form 兄弟阋墙 also exists, meaning 'internecine strife.'
usage
(xì) = to quarrel, an uncommon character that is easy to misread. = at / within. Often paired with 外御其侮.

Stroke Order

xiōng
qiáng