人不知而不愠

人不知而不慍
rén bù zhī ér bú yùn
quotation

Meanings

  1. 1 unrecognized by others yet not resentful
  2. 2 to remain unruffled when others fail to understand or appreciate you
  3. 3 people do not know yet (one) is not resentful

Examples

HSK 6
Xuéwen yuè shēn, yuè dǒng rénbùzhī'érbúyùn de dàolǐ.
The deeper one's learning, the better one understands 'unrecognized yet unoffended.'
HSK 7-9
Tā zuòshì dīdiào, rénbùzhī'érbúyùn, zhèngshì jūnzǐ zhī fēng.
He works quietly - 'unrecognized yet not resentful,' the very style of a gentleman.

Tips

history
From 《论语·学而》, the opening chapter of the Analects: 学而时习之不亦说乎有朋自远方来不亦乐乎人不知而不愠不亦君子乎? (To learn and regularly practice, is that not a joy? Friends from afar, is that not a pleasure? Unrecognized yet unresentful, is that not a gentleman?). The third of Confucius’s three opening rhetorical questions, and the moral climax: inner equanimity in the absence of outer recognition.
usage
= "resentful, sulking", less intense than (rage), more like quiet irritation. Nearly always quoted with the following line 不亦君子乎.

Stroke Order

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