牵绊

牽絆
qiānbàn
verb

Meanings

  1. 1 to bind
  2. 2 to hold back
  3. 3 to be tied down by
  4. 4 emotional ties (figurative)

Examples

Jiātíng de qiānbàn ràng tā méiyǒu chūguó.
Family ties kept him from going abroad.
Tā bù xiǎng bèi rènhé rén qiānbàn.
She doesn't want to be tied down by anyone.

Tips

usage
牵绊 has a softer, more emotional flavor than the harsh 束缚 (shùfù, fetter). It frequently shows up in song lyrics and romance novels — describes the loving-but-limiting pull of family, partners, or attachments.
memory
(to pull by a rope) + (to trip up): something tugging at you from one side while tangling your feet from the other. The image is gentle restraint, not chains.

Stroke Order

qiān
bàn