找对象

找對象
zhǎoduìxiàng
phrase

Meanings

  1. 1 to look for a romantic partner
  2. 2 to seek a marriage partner
  3. 3 to date with marriage in mind

Examples

Tā sānshí suì le hái méi zhǎo duìxiàng.
He's thirty and still hasn't found a partner.
Māma tiāntiān cuī wǒ zhǎo duìxiàng.
Mom nags me every day to find someone to marry.

Tips

culture
对象 (duìxiàng) here doesn't mean 'object' — it specifically means a serious romantic partner, with marriage as the implicit goal. This is why parents pressuring adult children about 找对象 is a classic source of family tension; casual dating wouldn't get this label.
usage
Distinct from 谈恋爱 (tán liàn'ài, 'to date / be in a relationship') which can be casual. 找对象 always implies looking for a future spouse.

Stroke Order

zhǎo
duì
xiàng