耳提面命

ěrtímiànmìng
idiom #83,172

Meanings

  1. 1 to tug at the ear and instruct face to face
  2. 2 to teach earnestly and repeatedly
  3. 3 patient, heartfelt instruction

Examples

Fùqīn ěr tí miàn mìng, zàisān dīngzhǔ tā yào chéngshí.
His father earnestly drilled into him again and again that he must be honest.
Lǎoshī duì xuéshēng ěr tí miàn mìng, fēicháng yòngxīn.
The teacher coached her students patiently and devotedly.
Jīngguò shīfu ěr tí miàn mìng de jiàodǎo, tā zhōngyú xué chéng le zhè mén shǒuyì.
After his master's patient, hands-on teaching, he finally mastered the craft.

Tips

history
From 《诗经·大雅·》: — 'it is not only face-to-face instruction; they also pull my ear to tell me.' The original image is a parent holding a child's ear gently while teaching — the warmest, most devoted form of discipline.

Stroke Order

ěr
miàn
mìng