耳提面命

ěrtí-miànmìng
idiom #83,172

Meanings

  1. 1 to tug at the ear and instruct face to face
  2. 2 to teach earnestly and repeatedly
  3. 3 patient, heartfelt instruction

Examples

HSK 6
Lǎoshī duì xuéshēng ěrtí-miànmìng, fēicháng yòngxīn.
The teacher coached her students patiently and devotedly.
HSK 7-9
Fùqīn ěrtí-miànmìng, zàisān dīngzhǔ tā yào chéngshí.
His father earnestly drilled into him again and again that he must be honest.
HSK 7-9
Jīngguò shīfu ěrtí-miànmìng de jiàodǎo, tā zhōngyú xué chéng le zhè mén shǒuyì.
After his master's patient, hands-on teaching, he finally mastered the craft.

Tips

history
From the 诗经 (Greater Odes, Yi): 匪面命之,言提其耳 - 'it is not only face-to-face instruction; they also pull my ear to tell me.' The original image is a parent holding a child's ear gently while teaching - the warmest, most devoted form of discipline.

Stroke Order

ěr
miàn
mìng