终身大事

終身大事
zhōngshēn-dàshì
idiom #62,162

Meanings

  1. 1 a major life decision
  2. 2 (esp.) marriage; one's lifelong commitment
  3. 3 the great affair of one's life

Examples

HSK 6
Xuǎn zhuānyè yě suànshì gè zhōngshēn-dàshì.
Choosing a major is also a major life decision.
HSK 7-9
Jiéhūn shì zhōngshēn-dàshì, yào shènzhòng kǎolǜ.
Marriage is a lifelong commitment - think it over carefully.
HSK 7-9
Fùmǔ zǒngshì wèi érnǚ de zhōngshēn-dàshì cāoxīn.
Parents always worry about their children's marriage prospects.

Tips

culture
In everyday Chinese 终身大事 is almost a euphemism for marriage. When relatives ask about it, they're asking when you'll get married.
history
Found in 凌濛初's late-Ming story collection 《二刻拍案惊奇》, where a careless gambling bet ruins someone's marriage prospects - their 终身大事.

Stroke Order

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shēn
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