欲擒故纵

欲擒故縱
yùqíngùzòng
idiom #22,743

Meanings

  1. 1 to loosen the reins in order to grasp better
  2. 2 play hard to get
  3. 3 let the enemy go in order to catch them later

Examples

Tā gùyì bù jiē tā de diànhuà, zhè shì yùqíngùzòng de cèlüè.
He deliberately didn't answer her calls — this was a play-hard-to-get strategy.
Jiāngjūn cǎiyòng yùqíngùzòng zhī jì, yǐnyòu díjūn shēnrù bāowéi quān.
The general used the tactic of letting the enemy advance, luring them deep into the encirclement.

Tips

history
欲擒故纵 is Stratagem No. 16 of the 三十六 (36 Stratagems), a classic Chinese text on military deception. The principle: relax your grip to make the enemy complacent, then strike. It is attributed to military strategists of the Warring States period.

Stroke Order

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