兼得

jiāndé
verb #31,464

Meanings

  1. 1 to have both at the same time
  2. 2 to gain both

Examples

Yú hé xióngzhǎng bùkě jiāndé.
You can't have both the fish and the bear's paw — you can't have it all.
Gōngzuò hé jiātíng hěn nán jiāndé.
It's hard to balance work and family at the same time.

Tips

history
Anchored in Mencius (《孟子·》): '熊掌二者不可' — 'Fish I desire, and bear's paw I desire too, but the two cannot be had together.' The phrase 不可兼得 has become a fixed metaphor for trade-offs.

Stroke Order

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