颐指气使

頤指氣使
yízhǐ-qìshǐ
idiom #27,784

Meanings

  1. 1 to order people around with arrogant gestures
  2. 2 to be bossy and overbearing
  3. 3 to signal orders by facial expression alone

Examples

HSK 5
Lǐngdǎozhě yīnggāi píngděng dàirén, ér bùshì yízhǐ-qìshǐ.
A leader should treat people as equals, not boss them around arrogantly.
HSK 7-9
Tā yīxiàng yízhǐ-qìshǐ, duì xiàshǔ cóngbù kèqi.
He has always been bossy and overbearing, never polite to his subordinates.

Tips

history
This idiom describes the manners of powerful nobles in ancient China who considered it beneath their dignity to speak to servants directly - they would simply gesture with their chin () or shift their breath/bearing (气使) to issue commands.
memory
= chin/jaw, = point/direct, = air/bearing, 使 = make/command. Literally: 'chin-pointing, breath-commanding' - so arrogant they don't even open their mouth to give orders.

Stroke Order

zhǐ
使 shǐ