不卑不亢

bùbēi-bùkàng
idiom #59,168

Meanings

  1. 1 neither humble nor arrogant
  2. 2 to have proper self-respect; to carry oneself with dignity

Examples

Tā miànduì shàngsi bùbēibùkàng, fēicháng détǐ.
He faced his boss with dignity, neither obsequious nor haughty, and it was very appropriate.
Wàijiāoguān yīnggāi bùbēibùkàng debiǎo dá lìchǎng.
A diplomat should state their position with composed dignity.

Tips

usage
means self-abasement, means arrogance. The phrase describes a balanced, dignified demeanor — praised in both personal conduct and diplomacy.

Stroke Order

bēi
kàng