自愧不如

zìkuìbùrú
idiom #42,936

Meanings

  1. 1 to feel ashamed of being inferior
  2. 2 to acknowledge oneself as not measuring up
  3. 3 to be humbled by another's superiority

Examples

Kàn le tā de zuòpǐn, wǒ zìkuìbùrú.
After seeing her work, I felt deeply outclassed.
Tā de qínfèn ràng wǒ zìkuìbùrú.
His diligence puts me to shame.

Tips

history
Traceable to 《战国·》, the famous Zou Ji episode: comparing himself to the handsome Mr. Xu , Zou Ji concludes '以为不如' — 'I myself feel I do not match up'. The phrase crystallized into 自愧不如, today's standard expression of admiring concession.
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Polite, slightly self-deprecating — used to praise someone else by lowering yourself. Avoid in contexts where humility could be mistaken for false modesty (job interviews, performance reviews) unless you really do mean it.

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