红白喜事

紅白喜事
hóngbáixǐshì
idiom

Meanings

  1. 1 weddings and funerals
  2. 2 happy and sad family occasions

Examples

Cūn lǐ hóngbáixǐshì, dàjiā dōu lái bāngmáng.
For weddings and funerals in the village, everyone comes to help out.
Tā jiā zuìjìn hóngbáixǐshì bùduàn, shífēn mánglù.
His family has had one wedding or funeral after another lately — very busy.

Tips

culture
(red) = weddings (red is the color of joy), (white) = funerals (white is mourning). A funeral for an elder who lived a long life is called 喜事 — a "white happy event" — because long life is worth celebrating.
history
From Yang Jingting's 《》 (Qing dynasty): "人情单一便为难" — nothing's dreaded more than wedding-and-funeral obligations; once the guest list arrives, you're in trouble. A comment on Beijing social customs.

Stroke Order

hóng
bái
shì