好事多磨

hǎoshì-duōmó
idiom #38,944

Meanings

  1. 1 good things come with many setbacks
  2. 2 the road to happiness is never smooth
  3. 3 worthwhile things take effort

Examples

HSK 3
Tāmen zhōngyú jiéhūn le, zhēnshì hǎoshì-duōmó.
They finally got married - the road there was anything but smooth.
HSK 7-9
Bié huīxīn, hǎoshì-duōmó, zài jiānchí yíxià.
Don't lose heart - good things take effort. Hang in there a bit longer.

Tips

usage
Often used to comfort someone whose plans have hit delays or obstacles, especially for weddings, projects, and relationships.
history
Attested in Song dynasty ci poetry (晁补之 安公子) and Jin dynasty 西厢记诸宫调.

Stroke Order

hǎo
shì
duō