喜不自胜

喜不自勝
xǐbúzìshèng
idiom

Meanings

  1. 1 unable to contain one's joy
  2. 2 overjoyed
  3. 3 beside oneself with happiness

Examples

Tīng dào nǚ'ér kǎo shàng le dàxué, tā xǐ bú zì shèng.
On hearing his daughter got into university, he was beside himself with joy.
Dézhī zhòngjiǎng de xiāoxi, tā xǐ bú zì shèng, jīdòng de shuō bu chū huà.
Hearing the news that she had won the prize, she was so overjoyed she couldn't speak.

Tips

history
First attested in the Yuan dynasty play 《西》 (Xīxiāngjì, Romance of the Western Chamber) by (Wáng Shífǔ): 夫人亲自喜不自胜 ('that the lady should send him off in person — he could not contain his joy'). The phrase has been a stock literary expression of overflowing delight ever since.
memory
Key character is (shèng) here meaning 'to bear / to withstand' — not 'to win.' So = 'cannot bear oneself,' i.e., the joy is too much to handle. Same usage in 不胜感激 (bú shèng gǎnjī, immeasurably grateful).

Stroke Order

shèng