除非己莫为

除非己莫為
chúfēi jǐ mò wéi
quotation #60,937

Meanings

  1. 1 unless you don't do it yourself (it cannot be kept secret) - the only way to keep a wrong hidden is never to commit it
  2. 2 literally: unless oneself does not do (it)

Examples

HSK 4
Wǎngluò shàng shénme dōu kěnéng liú hén, chúfēijǐmòwéi.
Anything on the internet can leave a trace - the only way to keep it secret is not to do it.
HSK 7-9
Ruòyàorénbùzhī, chúfēijǐmòwéi, zuò le huàishì chízǎo huì bèi jiēfā.
If you want no one to know, then don't do it - wrongs are always exposed sooner or later.

Tips

history
Second half of a Han-era proverbial couplet preserved in 《汉书·》 and widely repeated in later literature: , 除非 - 'If you wish no one to know of it, then you yourself must not do it.' The logic is airtight: secrets leak, so the only fool-proof way to hide a misdeed is never to commit it. Enduring favourite of moralists, school teachers, and anti-corruption officials.
usage
Paired couplet - almost always cited with its mate . Serves as a verbal warning / remonstrance; register is folk-proverbial rather than classical-literary.

Stroke Order

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