消受

消受 is overwhelmingly used in negative constructions — 消受不起 ("can't deserve to enjoy") or 消受不了 ("can't bear"). The implication is often modesty (politely declining good treatment) or genuine inability (this is too rich/intense for me). Has a literary, slightly humble flavor.

memory

Literally "to dissolve and receive" — to fully take in and be able to digest something. If you can't 消受 it, you literally can't "absorb" the good thing being offered.