抱头痛哭

抱頭痛哭
bàotóu-tòngkū
idiom #46,484

Meanings

  1. 1 to embrace and weep bitterly
  2. 2 to cry on each other's shoulder
  3. 3 to sob disconsolately

Examples

Mǔnǚ chóngféng, bàotóutòngkū.
Mother and daughter reunited and wept in each other's arms.
Tīngdào èhào, quánjiārén bàotóutòngkū.
On hearing the tragic news, the whole family collapsed into tears together.
Shīsàn duōnián de xiōngdì bàotóutòngkū.
The brothers, long separated, clung together and sobbed.

Tips

history
Attested in Liu E's late-Qing novel 《游记》 ch. 4: '这里家父他家抱头痛哭' — 'here the Yu family, father and son with the rest of the household, clung together and wept bitterly'. The idiom marks scenes of intense shared grief or reunion.
usage
Used for dramatic emotional moments — reunions after long separation, shared grief, or intense relief. Typically implies two or more people holding each other.

Stroke Order

bào
tóu
tòng