抱头痛哭

抱頭痛哭
bàotóutòngkū
idiom #46,484

Meanings

  1. 1 to embrace and weep bitterly
  2. 2 to cry on each other's shoulder
  3. 3 to sob disconsolately

Examples

Mǔnǚ chóngféng, bào tóu tòng kū.
Mother and daughter reunited and wept in each other's arms.
Tīngdào èhào, quán jiā rén bào tóu tòng kū.
On hearing the tragic news, the whole family collapsed into tears together.
Shīsàn duō nián de xiōngdì bào tóu tòng kū.
The brothers, long separated, clung together and sobbed.

Tips

history
Attested in Liu E's late-Qing novel 《》 ch. 4: '这里家父他家抱头痛哭' — 'here the Yu family, father and son with the rest of the household, clung together and wept bitterly'. The idiom marks scenes of intense shared grief or reunion.
usage
Used for dramatic emotional moments — reunions after long separation, shared grief, or intense relief. Typically implies two or more people holding each other.

Stroke Order

bào
tóu
tòng