察言观色

察言觀色
cháyánguānsè
idiom

Meanings

  1. 1 to read someone's words and facial expression
  2. 2 to gauge another's mood
  3. 3 to pick up on social cues

Examples

Tā shànyú chá yán guān sè, hěn huì chǔlǐ rénjì guānxi.
She's good at reading people and handles relationships well.
Zài zhíchǎng lǐ, xuéhuì chá yán guān sè hěn zhòngyào.
Learning to read the room is important in the workplace.

Tips

history
From 《论语·》: ,以下. Originally described a thoughtful, deferential person — modern usage is more neutral, about social attunement.

Stroke Order

chá
yán
guān