察言观色

察言觀色
cháyán-guānsè
idiom

Meanings

  1. 1 to read someone's words and facial expression
  2. 2 to gauge another's mood
  3. 3 to pick up on social cues

Examples

Tā shànyú cháyánguānsè, hěn huì chǔlǐ rénjì guānxi.
She's good at reading people and handles relationships well.
Zàizhí chǎng lǐ, xuéhuì cháyánguānsè hěn zhòngyào.
Learning to read the room is important in the workplace.

Tips

history
From 《论语·》: ,以下. Originally described a thoughtful, deferential person — modern usage is more neutral, about social attunement.

Stroke Order

chá
yán
guān