退避三舍

tuìbì-sānshè
idiom #35,300

Meanings

  1. 1 to retreat ninety li
  2. 2 to give way to avoid conflict
  3. 3 to back off out of deference

Examples

HSK 5
Duìyú tā de píqi, tóngshì men dōu tuìbì-sānshè.
Colleagues steer well clear of her temper.
HSK 7-9
Miànduì qiángdí, tā xuǎnzé tuìbì-sānshè.
Facing a strong opponent, he chose to back off.
HSK 7-9
Tā kǒucái xīlì, duìshǒu zhǐnéng tuìbì-sānshè.
His tongue is so sharp that opponents can only back down.

Tips

history
From 《左传》. When Duke Wen of Jin was in exile in Chu, he promised King Cheng of Chu that if their armies ever met, he would retreat three (each 30 li, so 90 li total) in gratitude. At the Battle of Chengpu (632 BCE), he kept his word - then went on to win.

Stroke Order

退 tuì
sān
shě