柿子挑软的捏

柿子挑軟的捏
shìzitiāoruǎndeniē
idiom

Meanings

  1. 1 bullies pick on the weak
  2. 2 lit. when picking persimmons, you choose the soft ones to squeeze
  3. 3 to single out the most vulnerable target

Examples

Tā zhuān tiāo xīnrén qīfu, zhēn shì shìzi tiāo ruǎn de niē.
He picks on newcomers — it really is a case of squeezing the soft persimmons.
Qiángquán guójiā qīfu xiǎoguó, jiùshì shìzi tiāo ruǎn de niē.
Powerful countries bullying small ones is exactly 'picking the soft persimmons to squeeze.'

Tips

culture
Pairs with the noun phrase 柿子 (ruǎn shìzi, 'soft persimmon') = an easy target, a pushover. The full saying spells out the bully's logic: when faced with a fruit stand, you reach for the ones that give way under your fingers.
usage
Used to criticize cowardly or selective bullying — at school, in the office, or in geopolitics. Often delivered with a sigh of disapproval rather than as praise of cunning.

Stroke Order

shì
tiāo
ruǎn
de
niē