倒苦水

dàokǔshuǐ
phrase

Meanings

  1. 1 to pour out one's grievances
  2. 2 to vent
  3. 3 to unload one's troubles

Examples

Tā zhuā zhe wǒ de shǒu jiù kāishǐ dào kǔshuǐ.
She grabbed my hand and immediately started pouring out her troubles.
Xiàbān yǐhòu, tā cháng zhǎo lǎo péngyou dào dao kǔshuǐ.
After work he often finds an old friend to vent to.

Tips

memory
Literally 'pour out the bitter water': (dào, pour) + 苦水 (kǔshuǐ, bitter water — the buildup of complaints). Like English 'to unload', it implies the listener is doing the speaker a favor by absorbing the negativity.
grammar
Verb-object compound, so and 苦水 can be split: 肚子苦水 (dào le yī dùzi kǔshuǐ, 'poured out a belly-full of grievances'), 倒苦水 (reduplicate to soften, 'have a bit of a vent').

Stroke Order

dào
shuǐ