Raising children also requires rules - without them, how can anything take proper form?
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history
Adapted from Mencius 《孟子·离娄上》: '不以规矩,不能成方圆' - without compass and square, you can't make true circles or squares. 规 = compass, 矩 = carpenter's square; together they generalize to 'rules'.
usage
More common in modern usage as 没有规矩,不成方圆. The 何以 form is slightly more literary/rhetorical.