悲喜交加

bēixǐjiāojiā
idiom #34,961

Meanings

  1. 1 mixed feelings of sorrow and joy
  2. 2 tears and laughter at the same moment
  3. 3 bittersweet

Examples

Kàndào shīsàn duō nián de nǚ'ér, tā bēixǐjiāojiā.
Seeing the daughter she had been separated from for years, she felt both sorrow and joy.
Bìyè diǎnlǐ shàng, tóngxuémen bēixǐjiāojiā.
At the graduation ceremony, the classmates felt a mix of sadness and happiness.

Tips

usage
Structurally a four-character set phrase: ('sad') + ('happy') + 交加 ('coming together'). Same pattern as 风雨交加 ('wind and rain together' = stormy) and 交加 ('hunger and cold together' = destitute). Reserve for emotionally intense moments — reunions, graduations, partings — not for everyday mood mixing.

Stroke Order

bēi
jiāo
jiā