Jǐ yù lì ér lì rén, jǐ yù dá ér dá rén, shì Rújiā de shù dào.
'Wishing to stand, help others to stand; wishing to succeed, help others to succeed' is the Confucian principle of reciprocity.
Tips
history
From the Analects 《论语·雍也》: 夫仁者，己欲立而立人，己欲达而达人。 (The benevolent person, wishing to establish himself, establishes others; wishing to succeed, helps others to succeed.) Confucius's positive formulation of the Golden Rule (the negative form being 己所不欲，勿施于人).
usage
Always quoted together with 己欲立而立人. 达 here = reach success / achieve one's goal; 达人 = help others reach the same.
