听其言观其行

聽其言觀其行
tīngqíyánguānqíxíng
idiom

Meanings

  1. 1 listen to what they say and watch what they do
  2. 2 judge a person by their actions, not their words

Examples

Duì yī gè rén, yào tīngqíyánguānqíxíng, bùnéng zhǐ kàn biǎomiàn.
When judging a person, listen to what they say and watch what they do — don't just look at the surface.
Miànshìguān de yuánzé shì tīngqíyánguānqíxíng.
The interviewer's principle is to listen to what people say and observe what they do.

Tips

history
From 《论语·》: — Confucius says he used to trust a person's actions based on their words, but now he listens to words and watches actions independently. The shift is from naive trust to evidence-based judgment.

Stroke Order

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