可远观而不可亵玩焉

可遠觀而不可褻玩焉
kě yuǎn guān ér bù kě xiè wán yān
quotation

Meanings

  1. 1 it may be admired from afar but not toyed with up close
  2. 2 something pure that demands respectful distance, not casual familiarity

Examples

Tā gāolěng de qìzhí ràng rén juéde kě yuǎn guān ér bùkě xiè wán yān.
Her aloof aura gives the sense that she 'may be admired from afar but not played with up close.'
Zhè jiàn wénwù jiàzhíliánchéng, kě yuǎn guān ér bùkě xiè wán yān.
This artifact is of immense value - 'to be viewed from afar, never to be handled.'

Tips

history
From 周敦颐 《爱莲说》 (Northern Song, 11th c.), the classical prose essay 'On Loving Lotus': 予独爱莲之出淤泥而不染……可远观而不可亵玩焉 (I alone love the lotus: it rises from mud unstained... it may be viewed from afar but not toyed with up close). Zhou, a founder of Neo-Confucianism, made the lotus the moral emblem of the Confucian gentleman, pure amid corruption, dignified at a distance.
usage
is a classical sentence-final particle (≈ /). = to treat profanely, make too familiar, a morally weighty word, not just 'handle.' Today often used humorously of an untouchable crush or celebrity.

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